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Roscleo
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You have hit the nail on the head I do believe! Women are on welfare and don't support thier children I don't see them throwing them in jail cause they dont' pay so much a month toward supporting their own children.hound dog said:How can the courts order anyone to get a job with a higher wage and more hours. Are they going to supply this job to them. How can they expect that you know higher paying jobs are not as accesiable as they were a year or two years ago. I think it is wrong if a person loses their jobs then they should base child support on what they can get not what the CP or Judge think they can get. That is ridculous.
Now how can they put someone in jail for not supporting their children. I mean if they which they are they need to start at the welfare line b.c they are not supporting their children we are the tax payors. So how can they say a man is not paying his support is in violation so throw him in jail but yet some women ( not all) keep on having babies and keep getting benefits so why is she not thrown in jail??????????? I am confused you know the bottom line is the man is only looked at as money the Gov't got tired of forking the bill out so they passed it on rather it is fair or not and boy do we all know it is not fair.
Bottom line is we cannot raise or see or pay for our children unless we go through a lawyer a judge and boo coodles of money. You know satistics say that majority of men who do not pay their support is b.c they do hav eit or it is to high. See child support is like any other bill you pay it if you have it. There is not relief for anything job loss , injury, illness......Oh sure you say oh you can take it back to court which again takes $$$$$$$$ Its funny if you get a divorce when the child is five the courts expect you to pay w/o fail for the next fiftenn years......like you never going to fall on hard times............tell me the fairness........
I also agree that the majority of men who don't pay are the men who can't afford it. But because there are a few men who really do run from thier responsibility all men regardless of how hard they try are considered deadbeats. Which is wrong. You also have men paying cs for children they are not even allowed to see and they are calling someone else daddy.
I would like to see one person on here say "Sure I will make all of the payments on this nice new car for you for the next five or six years and I will never get to drive it or touch it or see it."
I don't think that would go over to well.