What is the name of your state? Minnesota
Hello everyone, I am new here and I'm hoping to get some input on a difficult situation.
My husband and I want to adopt our neice and nephew, right now we are just trying to get custody changed. My brother (the kids biological father) is in jail right now, and wants my husband and I to adopt the kids, so we don't have any problems when it comes to him. The problem is with their bioloigal mother. She left the kids with the baby sitter on October 31, 2006 and has not seen them since. At that time the kids moved in with my brother and our mom, until May when they moved in with my husband and I. Currently their mother has been into social services and wants the kids back (after almost a year of not even seeing them!), my neice turned 3 in July and my nephew will be 2 in December - so, as you can imagine, they don't even know who she is anymore.
This isn't the first of the problems, a couple weeks before my neices 1st birthday the mother lost custody because of doing meth and other drugs (she also did drugs while she was pregnant with both kids). So my husband and I applied for emergency temporary foster care and she came to live with us for about 3 months. Not long after she was taken away again (also for drugs) and moved in with my husband and I. During the second stay with us, our nephew was born and I was asked to pick him up from the hospital and he stayed with us for a few days before going back to the mom.
So, my husband and I want to adopt the kids because they have had such a difficult life already. We have a letter from my nephews doctor that claims medical neglect when he was living with their mom because he has excema and it was not taken care of. We have taken care of these kids more than anyone else and they already call us mom and dad.
I tried to turn in Notice of Motion and Motion for Change of Custody and the corrosponding paperwork, located at http://www.mncourts.gov/default.aspx?page=513&item=55&itemType=packetDetails
When I got there they told me that I couldn't because those papers are for changing custody between parents. But if you look at the paperwork you can see that there is a section to input another person's information, and the questions ask who to change custody to and there is an option to select the "other" person. So, the people just turned me away and said I couldn't do it. After they turned me away I found:
http://ros.leg.mn/bin/getpub.php?pubtype=STAT_CHAP&year=2006§ion=257C
Subd. 3. Interested third party. (a) "Interested third party" means an individual who is
not a de facto custodian but who can prove that at least one of the factors in section 257C.03,
subdivision 7 , paragraph (a), is met.
(b) "Interested third party" does not include an individual who has a child placed in the
individual's care:
(1) through a custody consent decree under section 257C.07;
(2) through a court order or voluntary placement under chapter 260C; or
(3) for adoption under chapter 259.
THEN I found:
257C.03 PROCEDURE.
Subdivision 1. Commencement of proceedings. (a) In a court of this state with jurisdiction
to decide child custody matters, a de facto or third-party child custody proceeding may be brought
by an individual other than a parent by filing a petition seeking custody in the county where:
(1) the child is permanently a resident, the child is found, or an earlier order for custody of
the child has been entered; or
(2) the court has jurisdiction over the matter under chapter 518D.
(b) The proceeding is commenced by personal service of the summons and petition.
(c) An individual other than a parent who seeks visitation under this section must qualify
under one of the provisions of section 257C.08, and must comply with the provisions of this subdivision to commence the proceeding.
So to me, it sounds like I should be able to file this paperwork. What I'm wondering though, is there a different paperwork that I should be filling out, or should I be able to use the ones that I filled out already??
Thanks so much for all your time!What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
Hello everyone, I am new here and I'm hoping to get some input on a difficult situation.
My husband and I want to adopt our neice and nephew, right now we are just trying to get custody changed. My brother (the kids biological father) is in jail right now, and wants my husband and I to adopt the kids, so we don't have any problems when it comes to him. The problem is with their bioloigal mother. She left the kids with the baby sitter on October 31, 2006 and has not seen them since. At that time the kids moved in with my brother and our mom, until May when they moved in with my husband and I. Currently their mother has been into social services and wants the kids back (after almost a year of not even seeing them!), my neice turned 3 in July and my nephew will be 2 in December - so, as you can imagine, they don't even know who she is anymore.
This isn't the first of the problems, a couple weeks before my neices 1st birthday the mother lost custody because of doing meth and other drugs (she also did drugs while she was pregnant with both kids). So my husband and I applied for emergency temporary foster care and she came to live with us for about 3 months. Not long after she was taken away again (also for drugs) and moved in with my husband and I. During the second stay with us, our nephew was born and I was asked to pick him up from the hospital and he stayed with us for a few days before going back to the mom.
So, my husband and I want to adopt the kids because they have had such a difficult life already. We have a letter from my nephews doctor that claims medical neglect when he was living with their mom because he has excema and it was not taken care of. We have taken care of these kids more than anyone else and they already call us mom and dad.
I tried to turn in Notice of Motion and Motion for Change of Custody and the corrosponding paperwork, located at http://www.mncourts.gov/default.aspx?page=513&item=55&itemType=packetDetails
When I got there they told me that I couldn't because those papers are for changing custody between parents. But if you look at the paperwork you can see that there is a section to input another person's information, and the questions ask who to change custody to and there is an option to select the "other" person. So, the people just turned me away and said I couldn't do it. After they turned me away I found:
http://ros.leg.mn/bin/getpub.php?pubtype=STAT_CHAP&year=2006§ion=257C
Subd. 3. Interested third party. (a) "Interested third party" means an individual who is
not a de facto custodian but who can prove that at least one of the factors in section 257C.03,
subdivision 7 , paragraph (a), is met.
(b) "Interested third party" does not include an individual who has a child placed in the
individual's care:
(1) through a custody consent decree under section 257C.07;
(2) through a court order or voluntary placement under chapter 260C; or
(3) for adoption under chapter 259.
THEN I found:
257C.03 PROCEDURE.
Subdivision 1. Commencement of proceedings. (a) In a court of this state with jurisdiction
to decide child custody matters, a de facto or third-party child custody proceeding may be brought
by an individual other than a parent by filing a petition seeking custody in the county where:
(1) the child is permanently a resident, the child is found, or an earlier order for custody of
the child has been entered; or
(2) the court has jurisdiction over the matter under chapter 518D.
(b) The proceeding is commenced by personal service of the summons and petition.
(c) An individual other than a parent who seeks visitation under this section must qualify
under one of the provisions of section 257C.08, and must comply with the provisions of this subdivision to commence the proceeding.
So to me, it sounds like I should be able to file this paperwork. What I'm wondering though, is there a different paperwork that I should be filling out, or should I be able to use the ones that I filled out already??
Thanks so much for all your time!What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?