All i was saying is,It's going to be hard paying child support to her working at mcdonalds for the next 4 years of his life, and whatabout if he wanted to go to college, Why should he stop his life and education for her, and the baby might not even be his. I hope for his sake its not. Its good that he is doing the right thing, But the girl being alone with the baby and having to do everything herself and at 2 am in the morning doing everything shes not mature enough to handle a baby. i know a girl in the same situation and the guy is helping her out some but not much, and she gets ticked off because he still wants to go hunting and fishing and all the single things a guy wants to do, and he gave the baby his last name and went through everything with her the whole time. but in the end, everyone knows it comes down to the mom. She did it to herself, and she did it to the guy and the poor baby is the one that suffers because neither one of them are ready to parents and give up their young lifes, give this girl a few months and by the time the dna comes back and if it is his and he wants to give it up as adoption she probably will to, cause she will want her life back, as a teenager. that would be the best thing for the baby. not that he will forget about it because he want but, he will be going on with his life in the meantime while waiting on these test, and I promise you not many 18year old guys want to give up their sports or life to do diaper changes at 2 am, and she will be tired of it herself.He might be lucky enough that this will happen and she start calling him to come get the baby. I hope thats true for him.
