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amy1981
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bio dads rights terminated & child is now adopted but bio dad is trying to see child
What is the name of your state? PA
well here's my situation: my sons bio father "J" made no contact with me or our son "B". We, my husband & myself went to court along with J & his mom. Judge terminated J's rights & judge gave him 30 days to appeal it & he didn't. And my husband as now adopted B. Now J has become friends with my brother who still lives at home with my mom. And now J is now trying to show intrest in B is trying to talk my brother into letting him know when B will be there so he can show up at my moms house while he's there. My brother said no he can't do that. And now J has some pictures of B that he got while he was at my moms house. And J said if he can't keep the pictures of B then he will make copies of them & give the orginal ones back. Now maybe you guys think I'm being childish, but I DON"T want him having those pictures. I told my mom to have my brother get them back, & my brother didn't think it was a big deal that J has 4 or 5 pictures of B. I'm mean why when J had his rights & didn't uses them to try & have contact with B why now does he need to try & be in his live & why should he be able to get pictures now.? This is really bothering me. And now that I know that J is tring to sneek around behind my back to see B I'm going to tell B school teachers that if J shows up to pick him up that he is not to leave with him. Is their any I can do to try & keep J from getting any more pictures or trying to sneek around to see B? He has not said anything to me. Please I need some answers on what I can do.
What is the name of your state? PA
well here's my situation: my sons bio father "J" made no contact with me or our son "B". We, my husband & myself went to court along with J & his mom. Judge terminated J's rights & judge gave him 30 days to appeal it & he didn't. And my husband as now adopted B. Now J has become friends with my brother who still lives at home with my mom. And now J is now trying to show intrest in B is trying to talk my brother into letting him know when B will be there so he can show up at my moms house while he's there. My brother said no he can't do that. And now J has some pictures of B that he got while he was at my moms house. And J said if he can't keep the pictures of B then he will make copies of them & give the orginal ones back. Now maybe you guys think I'm being childish, but I DON"T want him having those pictures. I told my mom to have my brother get them back, & my brother didn't think it was a big deal that J has 4 or 5 pictures of B. I'm mean why when J had his rights & didn't uses them to try & have contact with B why now does he need to try & be in his live & why should he be able to get pictures now.? This is really bothering me. And now that I know that J is tring to sneek around behind my back to see B I'm going to tell B school teachers that if J shows up to pick him up that he is not to leave with him. Is their any I can do to try & keep J from getting any more pictures or trying to sneek around to see B? He has not said anything to me. Please I need some answers on what I can do.