Can anyone help?

[dadwith2girls]

I am.

unless you can prove the bf is a danger to the children, its none of your business.does she concern herself with whom you have spending the night when the kids are with you? not likely. so dont concern yourself who she has spending the night.concentrate on the kids,who are probaly extremaley upset right now, and need lots of love and support from both of you to get thru this rough time.

I am thinking of the kids, and just to let everyone know we are already divorced and she has remarried and is now cheating on him. I do not want my kids to think that this is okay to do. The only reason she got married was to get cuustody of the kids, and she found out that me and my Girlfriend had gotten married. but I can give the kids a stable, family-oriented (sorry if spelled wrong) environment and she keeps moving them everytime she gets mad at the person she is living with. Wheather it is her mom or her husband. Now she is talking about moving in with her new boyfriend and she is not even legally separated from the husband she has. She has also said she is going to marry this guy, and she has only known him for a month.

 

[stealth2]

Yeah, but she's allowed to do that. If you think there's enough of a change in circumstance to file for a modification of custody, go for it. But realize that you cannot make her into a better person than she is - or the one you chose to have kids with.

The way the kids learn that it is not the right thing to do is by you providing a better model.