I guess a lot of it has to do with the being sweet to bees if you don't want vinegar thing.What is this place? An internet junk yard run by a gang of hyenas waiting around holding signs saying things like "Free landlord/tenant legal advice here!" for unsuspecting victims to wander through?
The volunteers' goal is to help, but then the OP goes sour milk on us, then guess what, the bees put the honey away and bring out the vinegar.
I'm jes sayin...