I enlisted in the army reserves back in 2009. I went to basic and AIT and when I got back home to TX. I was 19. I went to one drill and then me and my ex wife separated and she took my son and disappeared. I started acting stupid over it and got into drugs for a short time. Cleaned up and then couldn't find a job. I called and told the seargent the situation and tried to see if I can go AGR and he said no. I lost my apartment and was homeless for a few months. I then started living with a friend and his parents in OK for a while, but then got kicked out. Then talked to family and moved to CA and received a call about going in and when I told them that I wasn't in TX and had to live with family to get on my feet they said it doesn't matter and I need to find a way back. I had no money and couldn't make it, so I made a bad decision of ignoring it and tried to better myself. Later in 2012 I saw that I received an OTH. After that I haven't had any contact with the military. I now make good money in the oil field, remarried with more kids. The only bad thing I have is that OTH. I'm wondering if I can get it changed to an ELS or if I should just put the past behind me. I'm not going to be one to do here and say I was wronged. I put myself in that situation and made the irresponsible decision of bouncing around instead of staying and trying to find a way to make everything work. An OTH has not effected me in the slightest other than mentally. I was just 19 and wondering if it is just one of those you messed up you deal with it situations or maybe I can get it changed. Even if I was able to reenlist now, I would just to show that I am a completely different person from 7 years ago.