Can I report a bad ex-neighbor to her employer?

[BelizeBreeze]

Excuse me but this person and the rest of the neighbors were clearly the ones being bullied by these druggies and their ladyfriend. I applaud them for standing up to them. One does not expect their home life to be reduced to a school yard by such creeps.

You're excused. Since this is a LEGAL ADVICE site maybe you should think about what the law says regarding the question at hand before answering next time.

 

[joe_legal]

I heard of this really sick person who wanted to get back at someone, so they kept calling them up at their workplace, over and over and over again, from a public payphone, until the person got fired for getting too many phone calls. You shouldn't do that.

It would also be possible for you to send those photos to her boss anonymously, making sure your fingerprints are nowhere on them. That's another thing you shouldn't do. (But she might find out you sent them if they were clearly taken from your window, then she might try to take revenge.)

Yup, those are 2 things you shouldn't do.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

I heard of this really sick person who wanted to get back at someone, so they kept calling them up at their workplace, over and over and over again, from a public payphone, until the person got fired for getting too many phone calls. You shouldn't do that.

It would also be possible for you to send those photos to her boss anonymously, making sure your fingerprints are nowhere on them. That's another thing you shouldn't do. (But she might find out you sent them if they were clearly taken from your window, then she might try to take revenge.)

Yup, those are 2 things you shouldn't do.

and another post like this and you may find your membership cancelled.

 

[joe_legal]

and another post like this and you may find your membership cancelled.

Dem's fightin words, Cleetus.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Dem's fightin words, Cleetus.

your choice.

 

[joe_legal]

your choice.

Not really. You seem to enjoy sticking your nose in everyone else's business. Why is that?

 

[fairisfair]

Excuse me but this person and the rest of the neighbors were clearly the ones being bullied by these druggies and their ladyfriend. I applaud them for standing up to them. One does not expect their home life to be reduced to a school yard by such creeps.

Gee Ann, last time I saw you, you thought it was okay to stand up to those handicapped people by parking in their spaces
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=325723

 

[Job_Hunting]

You should be happy. You got your neighbor evicted, now you want to get her fired too huh? Nice..., karma's a b**ch you know.

 

[Texas_Bill]

her karma is the bad one

I am nice to a fault; but when pushed too far (as in this case), I go full bore. This woman needs to be demolished. I've already filed a report about my opinion of her mothering skills to Child Protective Services. Prong three of my attack is her employment.

 

[cbg]

As I said, the likelihood that her employer will pay any attention to you is slim.

 

[fairisfair]

I am nice to a fault; but when pushed too far (as in this case), I go full bore. This woman needs to be demolished. I've already filed a report about my opinion of her mothering skills to Child Protective Services. Prong three of my attack is her employment.

Who the he!! are you to decide who needs to be demolished?? I can only hope that you make some huge error, in your already poor judgement, and end up in the court fight of your life. You are not nice to a fault, you are a petty, revengeful, very small person.

 

[Texas_Bill]

There is nothing petty or small in this case

These hoodlums endangered my family; I am being a good neighbor to the rest of the folks around us by doing what I can to keep her from having a reason to live somewhere near THEM in the next place she rents. I would not wish some other good family suffer the way we did. She really ruined our whole summer and endangered us physically and financially. I cannot and will not forgive her. Maybe some Christian person would like to turn the other cheek, but all they'll get is slapped harder.

 

[moburkes]

Its OVER. She, he, or it has MOVED. I feel like I need to sue for MENTAL ANGUISH for reading this crap! If you feel the need to tell the employer, then go ahead. No amount of justification on your part will convince anyone here that it is the right thing to do. Period.

 

[Texas_Bill]

And by the way... I was a very good neighbor to her

When she broke her leg during the school year, I drove her daughter to school along with my son so that she would not have to risk making her leg worse coming downstairs and getting in the car; when on one occasion I heard the sound of water running constantly, I worried that something was wrong with her plumbing and invited her into our house so that she could hear what we were hearing (it turned out to be a faucet in the yard - my faucet - that was left running when the lawn guy got a drink the day before and didn't shut it completely off). We always made sure to not block the driveway with our cars. We watered the lawn and kept things tidy (she never did). These are just some of the neighborly things we did for her.

And our thanks was getting subjected to months of drug using losers living above our heads who filthed our yard, who woke us up at all hours, who brought wrecked cars into our driveway, and who made provocative comments to my wife and children.

And I am being petty????

If you still think so, you have a high tolerance for the scum of society.

 

[SaraJane]

And our thanks was getting subjected to months of drug using losers living above our heads who filthed our yard, who woke us up at all hours, who brought wrecked cars into our driveway, and who made provocative comments to my wife and children.

And I am being petty????

If you still think so, you have a high tolerance for the scum of society.

You make it sound like they were hitting crack pipes on your doorstep, but you have no proof that any of them were drug users, do you?

I think you're being petty, I've lived in apartments before and that's the sort of thing that you just have to learn to tolerate at times. It got out of hand, you got your justice... she moved. Let it go.

No one hurt you, the fact that they 'could' have means absolutely nothing at this point. You were annoyed, nothing more than that.

Now, you need something better to do with your time... in a way I think your desire to ruin her life and career is evidence that you have too much time on your hands.