What is the name of your state?California
This is something I don't know much about. I want to change my daughters last name legally. I don't want her to have her convicted felon's fathers last name. He can stay on the birth certificate but I don't want her name to be the same as his. How do I go about filing this. Oh, and my main reason is she already thinks her name is different cause it HAS been until he went to court and got a judge to order him be put on the BC and at the same time he changed her last name. I just found out this month that he actually changed it. I've tried to tell her her new name, but it's too late this little girl started crying and doesn't understand why she can't have mine and my husband's last name. It might sound trivial to most, but it actually broke this little girl's heart. She thinks she's not one of us anymore or something. It was very very sad. So now mommy wants to fix this. This man isn't even in her life. He has not been around in a year and a half. He did it to be a jerk. When we agreed to the name change I agreed to a hyphenated name. But he did the paperwork on his own and did not put a hyphen after her last name, he took it off all together. Men and their EGO's!! So any advice on how I can change this legally? Or do I just let her have whatever last name she wants until she's a little older to explain it to? Little ones are so easily hurt. Advice and how to handle this little 4 year old would be nice. I've don't want her having an identity crisis this early in life.
Basically do I need his permission to do this?
This is something I don't know much about. I want to change my daughters last name legally. I don't want her to have her convicted felon's fathers last name. He can stay on the birth certificate but I don't want her name to be the same as his. How do I go about filing this. Oh, and my main reason is she already thinks her name is different cause it HAS been until he went to court and got a judge to order him be put on the BC and at the same time he changed her last name. I just found out this month that he actually changed it. I've tried to tell her her new name, but it's too late this little girl started crying and doesn't understand why she can't have mine and my husband's last name. It might sound trivial to most, but it actually broke this little girl's heart. She thinks she's not one of us anymore or something. It was very very sad. So now mommy wants to fix this. This man isn't even in her life. He has not been around in a year and a half. He did it to be a jerk. When we agreed to the name change I agreed to a hyphenated name. But he did the paperwork on his own and did not put a hyphen after her last name, he took it off all together. Men and their EGO's!! So any advice on how I can change this legally? Or do I just let her have whatever last name she wants until she's a little older to explain it to? Little ones are so easily hurt. Advice and how to handle this little 4 year old would be nice. I've don't want her having an identity crisis this early in life.
Basically do I need his permission to do this?