Child Abuse?

[JKBee]

If you REALLY feel this is abuse, get the kid down to CPS and let them determine the child's truthfulness. From recent experience, if you are sure of the child's story, no child should be treated like this. There do not have to be bruises for CPS to investigate, and that is the agency to deal with. If they feel this to be an invalid claim, however, remember the story about crying "wolf."

 

[Ohiogal]

If you REALLY feel this is abuse, get the kid down to CPS and let them determine the child's truthfulness. From recent experience, if you are sure of the child's story, no child should be treated like this. There do not have to be bruises for CPS to investigate, and that is the agency to deal with. If they feel this to be an invalid claim, however, remember the story about crying "wolf."

You are aware that CPS would ALSO be required to investigate the abuse against the younger boy by the older sibling which could result in major trouble as the older boy engaged in sexual abuse of the younger by pantsing him. If that is substantiated the boys would need to be separated, the older may find criminal charges pressed against him and be put on trial as well as put in sexual offender treatment. Is there abuse? Depends on the truth. If the boy is telling the truth then yes there was -- and he was a perpetrator. Does mom want to risk it?

 

[meghamann]

The child who was puking was not the one that emailed the GAL nor the one that fought with his dad but yet the one that got slapped for sitting outside the door and listening. But in your eyes if he was told not to sit out the door then he shouldnt have been sitting outside the door so Im sure he had every right to be slapped right? The son that was puking met with the police the night after his older brother had emailed the GAL.

I don't have primary placement because of allegations of abuse that were made against me. They were not substantiated through DSS and I was never charged with anything but yet I had to jump through hoops in order to see my kids because I couldn't afford a lawyer and made too much money to qualify for one. They wanted to make an example out of a successful white single mother since in my state DSS was on the line for all the deaths that occurred on DSS watch.

I havent pulled anything on their dad or girlfriend. What is there to pull? I used to bad mouth their dad and grew up and have been a better person for the past 3 years now. I don't bad mouth him or her as much as I would love to.

My sons were in counseling and since it is not court ordered anymore their dad took them out. I dont have a say in whether they go to counseling or not and well unless it is court ordered his dad wont sign them up.

I am not being one sided at all. I am being honest. I have been a totally different parent for the past 3 years. I bite my tongue and keep my mouth shut in front of my kids and say nothing but nice things as much as it kills me.

 

[Ohiogal]

The child who was puking was not the one that emailed the GAL nor the one that fought with his dad but yet the one that got slapped for sitting outside the door and listening. But in your eyes if he was told not to sit out the door then he shouldnt have been sitting outside the door so Im sure he had every right to be slapped right? The son that was puking met with the police the night after his older brother had emailed the GAL.

Why can't your children listen quite frankly? This is more disrespect. While I don't agree with corporal punishment that does NOT make it criminal or abuse. Your children have NO respect for authority and it doesn't help when you defend their irresponsible behavior.

Like i said which you cannot comprehend, so let me repeat:

Also it is incredible that your son was puking the day after he talked to the police about his daddy. Could it be because he was lying?

I don't have primary placement because of allegations of abuse that were made against me. They were not substantiated through DSS and I was never charged with anything but yet I had to jump through hoops in order to see my kids because I couldn't afford a lawyer and made too much money to qualify for one. They wanted to make an example out of a successful white single mother since in my state DSS was on the line for all the deaths that occurred on DSS watch.

It takes more than allegations. Amazing though how the story has changed. You didn't know why dad had custody and you didn't even though according to you dad was abusive. And pulling the race card is pathetic.

I havent pulled anything on their dad or girlfriend. What is there to pull? I used to bad mouth their dad and grew up and have been a better person for the past 3 years now. I don't bad mouth him or her as much as I would love to.

Really? Couldn't prove it by these posts.

My sons were in counseling and since it is not court ordered anymore their dad took them out. I dont have a say in whether they go to counseling or not and well unless it is court ordered his dad wont sign them up.

And you haven't gone back to court to force the issue. Again, when your sexual deviant of a son ends up in jail be sure to blame it all on dad.

I am not being one sided at all. I am being honest. I have been a totally different parent for the past 3 years. I bite my tongue and keep my mouth shut in front of my kids and say nothing but nice things as much as it kills me.

That is NOT totally different. YOU are not coparenting. You are not even attempting to coparent. Rather you are taking your children's side regardless of how wrong they are.