Child Custody

[stealth2]

The bottom of line is that the child misses his dad and siblings very much and he needs to be close to them. As for his mother, not that much anymore.

So she's not unfit. Then Dad will have a fight on his hands.

 

[Raluca]

The bottom of line is that the child misses his dad and siblings very much and he needs to be close to them. As for his mother, not that much anymore.

How can anybody force a child to live with the parent he doesn't want to live with?

 

[weenor]

How can anybody force a child to live with the parent he doesn't want to live with?

Because according to the law and anybody with a brain, a CHILD is not mentally and emotionally able to make such life altering decisions. If he could, he would simply chose the parent that let's him get away with more. A CHILD is simply not capable of making that decision. Please get grip.

 

[fairisfair]

OMG do you honestly believe that there isn't a time in EVERY childs life that he doesn't want to live with the parent (s) he has???

 

[stealth2]

How can anybody force a child to live with the parent he doesn't want to live with?

How can anyone force a child to go to school if he doesn't want to?

How can anyone force a child to eat vegetables if he doesn't want to?

How can anyone force a child to brush his teeth if he doesn't want to?

How can anyone force a child to go to Church if he doesn't want to?

and so on and so forth.

It's called being a PARENT.

You have yet to provide a reason why the court should change custody, apart from it's what the kid wants.

 

[Raluca]

OMG do you honestly believe that there isn't a time in EVERY childs life that he doesn't want to live with the parent (s) he has???

He also didn't choose to have his mother as a parent. She is mantally unstable and he's the ONLY person she'll attack whenever she has "one-of-those", way to many times, break-downs.

 

[Raluca]

He also didn't choose to have his mother as a parent. She is mantally unstable and he's the ONLY person she'll attack whenever she has "one-of-those", way to many times, break-downs.

So because she is his parent she can use him as an object and do what is best for herself, right?

 

[stealth2]

Look - let's make this simple. Dad has to PROVE that Mom is unfit. Period. Then a JUDGE will decide what it in the child's best interests. Not the child, and certainly not you.

 

[Raluca]

So because she is his parent she can use him as an object and do what is best for herself, right?

She never cared about the childs best interest, but herself.

 

[Raluca]

She never cared about the childs best interest, but herself.

Ok Thanks! Heve a good one.

 

[stealth2]

Why do you keep replying to yourself?

 

[ceara19]

He also didn't choose to have his mother as a parent. She is mantally unstable and he's the ONLY person she'll attack whenever she has "one-of-those", way to many times, break-downs.

The stability of mom's mantle has now bearing on whether or not she is a fit parent (although it may be considered a safety hazard). If you meant that she is MENTALLY unstable, considering you keep answering your own questions, I don't think that YOU are really fit to be the one to judge ANYONE'S mental status!

 

[fairisfair]

Why do you keep replying to yourself?

um, because she is the only one that will give her the answers that she wants to hear, or could it be that bio mom is NOT the one that is unstable?

oh dang, ceara beat me !

 

[GrowUp!]

This is the type of thread where I really wish there was a "banging head" emoticon! LOL

 

[ezmarelda]

We use to live in CA and there was a law that says childern can choose where to live when they are 12 yeas old.

Just in case someone thinks this might be true...It is not

this is what CA says

3042. (a) If a child is of sufficient age and capacity to reason so
as to form an intelligent preference as to custody, the court shall
consider and give due weight to the wishes of the child in making an
order granting or modifying custody.