I believe it is arrears,that she is trying to get.
No I haven't. I don't care for the state lawyers,I think they are out for the state not their client.
Just my belief.
How old was your daughter when she moved back in with your mother? Your mother did not have a valid child support order because that would have been cancelled out by the child support order that your aunt received. Therefore your mother would have needed to get a new child support order after your daughter moved back in with her, in order to get arrears.
You do not do a very good job of explaining things. People have to ask you too many questions to get a clear picture of what is going on. What you need to do is sit down and write down a factual timeline of what went on so you have it to refer to if you need to speak in court.
For example, it should go something like this:
My mother had custody of my daughter from XXX date when she was XXX years old. I was ordered to pay child support and I paid it faithfully.
In XX of 2008, when my daughter was XX years old, my aunt in NY obtained official court ordered custody of my daughter, which included a child support order.
In XXX date of XXX year my daughter, who was age XX moved back in with my mother.
My mother attempted to get a child support order on XX date of XX year but it was thrown out because my daughter had already graduated from high school.
My mother is now attempting to try to get arrears against the old child support order that was cancelled out by the new child support order when my aunt got custody. I ask the court to dismiss her case.
