I agree that there is nothing wrong to say 'WE'. Once you married, you will share every problems and solve it together. There is no 'INDIVIDUALITY' in this matter, unless you are a selfish person and don't care about your partner. Geshhh, at least concentrate on the question, not picking stuff that is not important.
I don't know that one person can be ordered to pay both 'child support' and 'alimony'. Please correct me. I thought a person only obligated to pay one thing at a time, such as if there is child support, there will be no alimony and vice versa. Someone can let me know about this?