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jewell3
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What is the name of your state? Illinois
My husband pays child support for his daughter from a previous marriage. It is to my understanding, that child support is to be used for the well being of that child. Well, the child is rarely dressed in decent clothing and appears to not be properly cared for. On many occasions, my husband and I are approached in public places by others stating how horribly this child looks when seen in public places. We simply explain that we cannot change the mother's lifestyle... and the choices she makes on the child's appearance. We can only make sure the child is properly cared for and dressed nicely when she is with us.
However, someone told us that my husband could go to his lawyer and tell them that instead of paying the child support through the system... giving the mother cash in hand, that we could go out and spend that money on clothing and other needed items for the child and keep them at our house for her... as long as we keep all the receipts for everything.
Is this true?
My husband pays child support for his daughter from a previous marriage. It is to my understanding, that child support is to be used for the well being of that child. Well, the child is rarely dressed in decent clothing and appears to not be properly cared for. On many occasions, my husband and I are approached in public places by others stating how horribly this child looks when seen in public places. We simply explain that we cannot change the mother's lifestyle... and the choices she makes on the child's appearance. We can only make sure the child is properly cared for and dressed nicely when she is with us.
However, someone told us that my husband could go to his lawyer and tell them that instead of paying the child support through the system... giving the mother cash in hand, that we could go out and spend that money on clothing and other needed items for the child and keep them at our house for her... as long as we keep all the receipts for everything.
Is this true?