Blondee365
Member
I am writing for Florida.
I have two children with my ex boyfriend, ages 4 and 7. We recently broke up in January of 2018. Prior to recently, we had a verbal agreement on child care and were able to work things out amongst each other. However, due to increased difficulty, I decided to file for child support. It is to my understanding that thru child support, we would develop a parenting plan, as well. My ex, however, does not want to pay child support and so, soon after receiving notice, went to court to fille for petition of paternity and parenting plan (50/50). We are both working however lawyers are costly so we are both pro we, and representing ourselves. This is all very new to me. He filed his petition, I filed an answer to his petition and counter petitioned with a more reasonable parenting plan. I want joint custody with myself being the physical custodian. Him having them one day of the week and on weekends. Him also paying child support.
Since my counter petition was filed, he’s filed for a motion for default (which I’m sure won’t be granted because I filed all my paperwork). I feel like the next step would be to file a motion for hearing; however because I am already working thru child support, he should be the one to file these motions (he was determined indignant status and I’m not) so I can avoid these unnecessary court fees etc. Am I going about this all wrong? Looking for clarity.
I have two children with my ex boyfriend, ages 4 and 7. We recently broke up in January of 2018. Prior to recently, we had a verbal agreement on child care and were able to work things out amongst each other. However, due to increased difficulty, I decided to file for child support. It is to my understanding that thru child support, we would develop a parenting plan, as well. My ex, however, does not want to pay child support and so, soon after receiving notice, went to court to fille for petition of paternity and parenting plan (50/50). We are both working however lawyers are costly so we are both pro we, and representing ourselves. This is all very new to me. He filed his petition, I filed an answer to his petition and counter petitioned with a more reasonable parenting plan. I want joint custody with myself being the physical custodian. Him having them one day of the week and on weekends. Him also paying child support.
Since my counter petition was filed, he’s filed for a motion for default (which I’m sure won’t be granted because I filed all my paperwork). I feel like the next step would be to file a motion for hearing; however because I am already working thru child support, he should be the one to file these motions (he was determined indignant status and I’m not) so I can avoid these unnecessary court fees etc. Am I going about this all wrong? Looking for clarity.