ceara19 - Your answer was neither LEGAL or CORRECT. If you read the Maryland guidelines for child support it states that all allowances received by a military member and VA disability are usable income. My question was as to whether he should be using the allowance as well as me use the diability. None of that has to do with where I seek treatment for my disability. The people who ACTUALLY offered help were thanked and it was appreciated. I am more than willing to accept help, but you are not offering an answer to my questions. You are merely trying to make me look like someone who is just digging for money and only has excuses. My way of thinking may be different than yours, but it isn't flawed. You have your opinion as someone who does not live the life that I live, in the area I live or with the disability that I have. Easy to pass judgement when it isn't you.
I never bashed this site...EVER! On the contrarary. I believe there are plenty of people on this site who are willing to offer their legal advice using their legal experience. The people I referred to were the ones who claimed I was being grabby, looking for pennies, and are more interested in where I seek treatment (which still has absolutely nothing to do with the original question) than whether my child support calculations were correct or not.
You don't have to like my responses. You don't even have to respond. But I would hope that there are still fair minded people out there who can see the ENTIRE picture and not just judge me because I am the one who asked the question. How can you attack someone when you don't even know them? No, I am not going to like every answer I get. But if a person responds in a honest, productive way without attacking me, I have not problem listening to it. It's too bad you think this is whinning. But how would you respond to someone attacking you when you asked a question and were looking for a serious answer?