Otterchick
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Ohio
I apologize for the length, but as I said, it's complicated. We have a lawyer but would like a second opinion.
A little over a year ago, my husband and I were having problems. During this time he was seeing someone who was seperated from her husband. After a couple of months, she got pregnant with twins. Shortly after this, my husband and I reconciled and have even renewed our vows. Although we have not had a paternity test yet (going to court for that), we are pretty sure they are his. We had no intention of avoiding any responsibility for these children, even hoping to get custody one day because she is a nutjob. (Trust me on this) Here is where the fun starts.
She was letting us have the babies overnight 3-4 nights a week as she already has 2 children that are comepletely out of control. She was more that happy to have us take them, she even let a friend keep them for a couple of days the week they came home from the hospital. This was working out ok, we were doing all the transporting and although we weren't paying support at this time, we did purchase formula and diapers on request. After about 2 months of this, she basically gets mad because I got a new (to me) van to easier transport the babies and our other 3 kids and she got jealous. That week we get a call saying that she and her husband are going to work things out (even though she has been seeing another married man) and that we can't see the kids anymore. (Just previous to this she told my husband that she was pregnant by this other married man.) This has been about 2 months ago, we have not seen the babies since and she has left a message saying that her and this "other man" are going to move to Florida and she wanted my husband to sign off on his rights. She also lied to our lawyer telling him that we said we wanted nothing to do with the babies (which he knows is crap and which is why we spend $1000 on baby things for our house when they were born).
To sum it up, we are going to court for a forced paternity test and joint custody. Do we have a chance?
I apologize for the length, but as I said, it's complicated. We have a lawyer but would like a second opinion.
A little over a year ago, my husband and I were having problems. During this time he was seeing someone who was seperated from her husband. After a couple of months, she got pregnant with twins. Shortly after this, my husband and I reconciled and have even renewed our vows. Although we have not had a paternity test yet (going to court for that), we are pretty sure they are his. We had no intention of avoiding any responsibility for these children, even hoping to get custody one day because she is a nutjob. (Trust me on this) Here is where the fun starts.
She was letting us have the babies overnight 3-4 nights a week as she already has 2 children that are comepletely out of control. She was more that happy to have us take them, she even let a friend keep them for a couple of days the week they came home from the hospital. This was working out ok, we were doing all the transporting and although we weren't paying support at this time, we did purchase formula and diapers on request. After about 2 months of this, she basically gets mad because I got a new (to me) van to easier transport the babies and our other 3 kids and she got jealous. That week we get a call saying that she and her husband are going to work things out (even though she has been seeing another married man) and that we can't see the kids anymore. (Just previous to this she told my husband that she was pregnant by this other married man.) This has been about 2 months ago, we have not seen the babies since and she has left a message saying that her and this "other man" are going to move to Florida and she wanted my husband to sign off on his rights. She also lied to our lawyer telling him that we said we wanted nothing to do with the babies (which he knows is crap and which is why we spend $1000 on baby things for our house when they were born).
To sum it up, we are going to court for a forced paternity test and joint custody. Do we have a chance?