I understand that this forum may not be able to help its not just a matter of me not comprehending what im told either. theres no playing victim when you are one. I made stupid decisions as a stupid 15-16 year old girl because I was a TEENAGER that doesn't give any man at the age of 25 to do what he did and continue to do so to other 16 year olds at 37. the kids are not the only victims regardless of "what you see"and while I agree with you about that statement. while I was younger yeah I thought it was cool an di outgrew him by the age of 20 but it wasn't cool when I find out that hes still doing it. not only do I feel guilty because other girls were harmed but I feel guilty because I have kids with him that have to claim this man as a father. as for my parents they didn't know about it because he preys on new girls that get their first job at mcdonalds. hes the manager so that's always been his playing field.
I have a 13 yo granddaughter more mature than you are now. GROW UP. Quit making excuses. At 16, you CHOSE to behave as an adult and have sex, get pregnant and raise a child. Take responsibilities for your actions - past and present. You are a victim because you CHOOSE to be one.
If he is involved with other minors, it is their parents responsibility to involve the proper authorities - and take control over their own children. You need to worry only about your own.
Your disdain for the children's father is hurting them because they are 1/2 him. If you do not see the damage your attitude can do to them, you are beyond any advice I might give you.
GET A LAWYER AND a PSYC EVALUATION FOR YOURSELF., (Yes I am yelling!)
