I appreciate your concern for the sanctity of marrige. However, I think you all care more about marrige then she did. If both parties are dating other people, have been seperated for a little over 2 years, I do not agree that it is disrespectful to move on with your life while you are just waiting to finalize the terms and dissolve the marrige. I have not disrespected her because she originally wanted the divorce to be with her boyfreind, so actually she didnt respect her marrige.
But I do agree with whomever stated something in reference to stooping to her level, and I agree, I will not confront her because that will only make me lower myself and come to her level of craziness and that I will not do.