Heres how I know: my daughter came to me & asked me, "Dad am I going back to that court place where I have to talk to that lady again?" to which I replied what makes you think that? she said, " mom showed me the papers you sent her and she said you were making us go back to court. What do you want me to say to the lady? then I said, " I just want you to tell her the truth." She then said, " thats all you want me to tell her?"
Mom has a history, ( documented) of coaching our daughter. I don't call her a bad parent just because I don't like her.