StepMomInGA
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What is the name of your state?GA
Let me give you some backround on this issue first...
My step son has been living with me and his dad for almost 2 years. He does not see his mom all too often. In the past 6 months my SS told me that right before he moved down here with us, he asked his mom "Why did you and daddy get divorced?" She said, "Because he slapped me." My SS couldn't remember if she said slapped or choked. Well, we let him know that's not true, and that his dad would never do something like that. We also told him that there are some things that children should not know, like the "real" reason why parents get divorced because it make make your feeling towards the other parent sour. When SS always asked his dad the same question, he just always said "it just didn't work out", my husband never told his son that "your mom couldn't stop having sex with different guys while we were married" It just wouldn't be right..
Well, my ss just came back from visitation with his mom for the summer. He told me that he asked her if his daddy really slapped her, he told me that she said" Yes, he tried to kill me." I couldn't believe she actually had the balls to say that to him..
What should my husband do? Should he send a certified letter to her letting her know that he will turn her in for contempt if she does anything like this again? It states in the custody papers "The parties shall refrain from making derogatory or disparaging remarks against the other party in presence of the minor child and shall not malign the other party to the minor child."
These are all lies, they are things that did not happen. I've been with my husband for 7 years and he's never tried to lay a hand on me. I think if someone tried to "kill" me, I'd at least fill out a police report!
Let me give you some backround on this issue first...
My step son has been living with me and his dad for almost 2 years. He does not see his mom all too often. In the past 6 months my SS told me that right before he moved down here with us, he asked his mom "Why did you and daddy get divorced?" She said, "Because he slapped me." My SS couldn't remember if she said slapped or choked. Well, we let him know that's not true, and that his dad would never do something like that. We also told him that there are some things that children should not know, like the "real" reason why parents get divorced because it make make your feeling towards the other parent sour. When SS always asked his dad the same question, he just always said "it just didn't work out", my husband never told his son that "your mom couldn't stop having sex with different guys while we were married" It just wouldn't be right..
Well, my ss just came back from visitation with his mom for the summer. He told me that he asked her if his daddy really slapped her, he told me that she said" Yes, he tried to kill me." I couldn't believe she actually had the balls to say that to him..
What should my husband do? Should he send a certified letter to her letting her know that he will turn her in for contempt if she does anything like this again? It states in the custody papers "The parties shall refrain from making derogatory or disparaging remarks against the other party in presence of the minor child and shall not malign the other party to the minor child."
These are all lies, they are things that did not happen. I've been with my husband for 7 years and he's never tried to lay a hand on me. I think if someone tried to "kill" me, I'd at least fill out a police report!