Fine. Whatever. Keep suggesting to posters that they just need to file a show cause for contempt, and they just need to sit back and really put no effort into their claim to get a conviction.
I really wish you'd quit misquoting people. No one ever said any such thing. The record is there for anyone to read.
There is a presumption of ability to pay. If support is not being paid, then the recipient can file for contempt. If the payer doesn't show up, he's going to lose. If the payer shows up, it is up to him to prove that he couldn't pay - and that claim is rebuttable.
Please stop giving incorrect advice. More importantly, please stop misquoting people.
Wow...ok. If y'all don't mind, I have some add'l questions:
1) I had the understanding this was a civil proceeding, that the only one that could charge the obligor with criminal contempt was the judge. After he (the judge) gives the obligor certain instructions and those instructions are ignored. Is this not correct?
2) MJ states that the burden of proof (BOP) falls to be to prove his 'willfullness', hence the discovery...but Gracie says that it lays with the NCP...but that it would be in my best interest to be able to show that he had the ability to earn/pay. So I go ahead with the discovery...right?
3) My 'Request for Production of Evidence' should include the following: receipts/documentation of admittance from med centers/hospitals...from the NCP; payroll records from his last known employer...(subpoena ducas tecum yes?); and a copy of the police report, if available, of the 'accident' that caused his injury...(i think the accident occurred in a neighboring county/town, do I send my request to them or what?? Even if he wasn't charged with anything, would there still be a report, yes? Do I even have access to that sort of thing?
Is there anything else I'm not thinking of??
4) The Requests must be in electronic format (CD-R) and sent to his last known certified with a return receipt. I've tried to find the rules of criminal procedure for contempt and they mention everything above.
Furthermore, the requests should just be a formal letter outlining the information needed and should be cc'd to the respondent, correct? So that he knows of everything I'm asking for.
Am I stupid for trying this without an attorney? It's my understanding that unless he's $25k or more 'in the rears' then hiring an attorney is just taking much needed funds from my own pocket and honestly, I cannot afford it and legal aid will not help me with contempt.
Thanks, everybody, for your time.
1. Yes, the judge is the only one who can hold someone in contempt. A person could be found to be in contempt for violating the original decree - it wouldn't necessarily require a second violation. However, judges often give people a warning the first time.
2. Don't listen to MJ. What you need to prove:
- a valid order exists
- you were not paid
That's it.
Now, he has the right to present refutation of either of those facts. He can also present a sob story to the court. The court can either listen or not. AND, if you have evidence that his claims are wrong, you can refute his claims.
3. That should cover it. Others may have some other ideas. I wouldn't list it to medical centers or hospitals, though. I would ask for ANY medical records and receipts related to anything that would prevent him from working for any reason.
4. Your court clerk can give you procedures.
Only you can determine if you're comfortable doing it on your own. You're right that an attorney won't be cheap, but fortunately, contempt hearings aren't horrendously expensive. You can also ask to be reimbursed for your legal expenses (but may not get it).