What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? MS
3 children. I have full physical custody, mom and I share joint legal.
Our court order states:
"(Me) and (Her) shall equally pay all private school tuition costs, lunch fees, after school fees, and enrollment fees on behalf of their minor children."
Here's the situation:
Our 6 year old son is in 1st grade, and he is struggling with reading, to the point that if we don't do something, he is going to fail first grade. His teacher has just kept telling me to help him out at home everytime I contact her about this problem.
I've been doing that, 2 to 3 hours per night, every night. No improvement. I'm just not a teacher.
I contacted the school district earlier in the year and set him up with a tutor. She saw him once, and then we never heard from her again. I found out that she had quit. She was the only county tutor for 1st grade.
I continued trying to work with his teacher (who has the personality of a slug), and I just couldn't get any help from her. All she would tell me was to work with him at home.
So last week, I by-passed the teacher and contacted the vice principal.
She referrred me to Huntington Learning Center. (It is very similar to Sylvan, if you've not heard of Huntington.)
So I took our soon this past Saturday to Huntington for his diagnostic testing, and I went back today for the results.
As I expected, he scored very low in reading and phonics.
In order to get him where he needs to be, he needs 4 hours at the center per week, at a rate of $55 per hour. That comes to $880 per month.
Granted, that's a lot of money, but it's an important investment in our son's future. We have got to get this boy reading.
So I emailed the x-wife about it today, explained everything, and asked if this is something she can/will split with me, and her response was, "Let him fail. He can just go to summer school for free."
I guess she doesn't see that because he can not read, he will fail that as well.
She and I happen to work for the same company (we are both independent contractors), and the company publishes a weekly report of number of claims worked by adjuster. Since I know what the commission rate is, I know how much she's making, and she's making more than me. And I'm making a damn good amount! So I know it's not because of lack of funds, unless she is just really mismanaging her money.
Now going back to what my court order says above, could this learning center be considered a form of private school, or could these be considered after school fees. If you notice, the order does not say after school CARE fees, just after school fees. And he will be going here after school.
Am I grasping at straws trying to get the learning center to fit into something in our order that she has to pay 1/2 for? Or could I have a really good argument for contempt if she refuses to pay 1/2?
Thanks!
3 children. I have full physical custody, mom and I share joint legal.
Our court order states:
"(Me) and (Her) shall equally pay all private school tuition costs, lunch fees, after school fees, and enrollment fees on behalf of their minor children."
Here's the situation:
Our 6 year old son is in 1st grade, and he is struggling with reading, to the point that if we don't do something, he is going to fail first grade. His teacher has just kept telling me to help him out at home everytime I contact her about this problem.
I've been doing that, 2 to 3 hours per night, every night. No improvement. I'm just not a teacher.
I contacted the school district earlier in the year and set him up with a tutor. She saw him once, and then we never heard from her again. I found out that she had quit. She was the only county tutor for 1st grade.
I continued trying to work with his teacher (who has the personality of a slug), and I just couldn't get any help from her. All she would tell me was to work with him at home.
So last week, I by-passed the teacher and contacted the vice principal.
She referrred me to Huntington Learning Center. (It is very similar to Sylvan, if you've not heard of Huntington.)
So I took our soon this past Saturday to Huntington for his diagnostic testing, and I went back today for the results.
As I expected, he scored very low in reading and phonics.
In order to get him where he needs to be, he needs 4 hours at the center per week, at a rate of $55 per hour. That comes to $880 per month.
Granted, that's a lot of money, but it's an important investment in our son's future. We have got to get this boy reading.
So I emailed the x-wife about it today, explained everything, and asked if this is something she can/will split with me, and her response was, "Let him fail. He can just go to summer school for free."
I guess she doesn't see that because he can not read, he will fail that as well.
She and I happen to work for the same company (we are both independent contractors), and the company publishes a weekly report of number of claims worked by adjuster. Since I know what the commission rate is, I know how much she's making, and she's making more than me. And I'm making a damn good amount! So I know it's not because of lack of funds, unless she is just really mismanaging her money.
Now going back to what my court order says above, could this learning center be considered a form of private school, or could these be considered after school fees. If you notice, the order does not say after school CARE fees, just after school fees. And he will be going here after school.
Am I grasping at straws trying to get the learning center to fit into something in our order that she has to pay 1/2 for? Or could I have a really good argument for contempt if she refuses to pay 1/2?
Thanks!
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