Ok, this is utterly ridiculous.
if it was right to schedule a court date without notifying me first..
You WERE notified, it was in the SUMMONS !
You filed an Answer within 30 days - ok fine, but demanding validation IN YOUR ANSWER IS NOT A PROPER ANSWER !!!! If you didn't Answer the Complaint it the proper and required format, answering each allegation listed in the complaint, then you might as well not have bothered filing an Answer at all. Your Answer, asking for validation, was irrelevant and and if that's ALL you answered with NOT sufficient to keep the court from granting the summary judgment the lawyer is asking for - you FAILED to state any sort of facts or claims.
What you SHOULD have done is file a PROPER Answer to the Complaint and then in a SEPARATE letter to the lawyer ask for validation. They didn't have to send the statement, but they did. All the judge is going to need to rule against you is a PREPONDERANCE OF EVIDENCE and if you have nothing, a credit card statement can be enough for the judge to rule against you.
You need to go to court on the 21st if you want to have any hope of making any kind of case for yourself.