I only choose to enroll to protect my children. My great-grandparents thought they were protecting their children by not enrolling them. Now times have changed.When you "self-identify" as a particular race or ethnicity, you can be required to prove what you claim.
And while you very well are Native American, it seems as if that is an afterthought, and only of value when it gets you something or gets you what you want.
Until you have a tribal roll number, you are NOT considered Native American---even if you are the spitting image of Chief Sitting Bull!
Why shouldn't every other race or ethnicity have to prove or have a roll number to be the race or ethnicity they are? There are many Native Americans whom can not sanction into a tribe because records were not kept or permanently lost. This does not make them any less Native American. Those issues are for another time and very well could be raised as a racial issue.
Chief Sitting Bull-HA! HA! I"m so glad I look more like Chief Pontiac!