jamessmith
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have legally seperated from my wife back in March, and living seperatly since than. We originally planned for 50/50 custody. She began drinking heavily and I was going to go for full custody since she put my job at risk by not coming home on the weekends to watch our son while I worked. Luckily my boss and his wife watched him on those times(documented). There were times she came home intoxicated with her boyfriend whle our son was there. I went to the point of getting a lawyer and almost serving her with an ex parte, but she said she would quit drinking if I didnt take her to court.
So I filed for the divorce that week, got legally seperated and she went and got into a car wreck(totaled) a week later. She didnt say she she got a dui, but I suspected it. The police report wasnt availble becuase her friends fled the scene and it was being investigated. I held off on the final agreement depending if our family car she wrecked was paid off by insurance. She was convicted of a DUI and lost her license. She got a lawyer and didnt have to do jail time.
I have been really understanding with her and have been driving our son to her. When she still had a job, it was basically 70/30 becuase she could not drop him off at daycare. I did all the driving so she can see our son. She has not made any effort to come get him. She hasnt even been to my place since we moved.
Now she wants me to finish the paperwork, putting 50/50 in the agreement. Even though I would have him more. Her reaction to me putting 70/30 was "I would have to pay child support" even though I said I wouldnt ask for it.
What are the chances if this goes to court? I am going to serve her with 70/30. I think she would be stupid to take it to court considering her history but she might. This last DUI which almost killed her and 4 passengers is her second in 6 years. I have been the primary caregiver since the seperation. Currently she is on collecting employement without a job. I take him to all of his doctors appointments. She has not been to one in probably 2 years.
I have legally seperated from my wife back in March, and living seperatly since than. We originally planned for 50/50 custody. She began drinking heavily and I was going to go for full custody since she put my job at risk by not coming home on the weekends to watch our son while I worked. Luckily my boss and his wife watched him on those times(documented). There were times she came home intoxicated with her boyfriend whle our son was there. I went to the point of getting a lawyer and almost serving her with an ex parte, but she said she would quit drinking if I didnt take her to court.
So I filed for the divorce that week, got legally seperated and she went and got into a car wreck(totaled) a week later. She didnt say she she got a dui, but I suspected it. The police report wasnt availble becuase her friends fled the scene and it was being investigated. I held off on the final agreement depending if our family car she wrecked was paid off by insurance. She was convicted of a DUI and lost her license. She got a lawyer and didnt have to do jail time.
I have been really understanding with her and have been driving our son to her. When she still had a job, it was basically 70/30 becuase she could not drop him off at daycare. I did all the driving so she can see our son. She has not made any effort to come get him. She hasnt even been to my place since we moved.
Now she wants me to finish the paperwork, putting 50/50 in the agreement. Even though I would have him more. Her reaction to me putting 70/30 was "I would have to pay child support" even though I said I wouldnt ask for it.
What are the chances if this goes to court? I am going to serve her with 70/30. I think she would be stupid to take it to court considering her history but she might. This last DUI which almost killed her and 4 passengers is her second in 6 years. I have been the primary caregiver since the seperation. Currently she is on collecting employement without a job. I take him to all of his doctors appointments. She has not been to one in probably 2 years.