custody

[huntergirl72482]

ok this is going no where fast i need to hire a lawyer get the case back in front of the judge speak my side and go from there thanks for trying to help but none of you are lawyers i need a lawyer not an advice group

 

[CJane]

ok this is going no where fast i need to hire a lawyer get the case back in front of the judge speak my side and go from there thanks for trying to help but none of you are lawyers i need a lawyer not an advice group

Buh bye. Be sure to let us know when the attorney tells you exactly the same thing we've told you. And yeah, some of us are lawyers.

 

[huntergirl72482]

well you dont act to professional bout it

 

[CJane]

well you dont act to professional bout it

You've been given accurate legal advice. Yes, you can hire an attorney, and you could file for a modification of custody. It may or may not be granted - you'd have to prove it's in the child's best interests to leave her father behind.

However, you will get nowhere with the request to disestablish paternity. Besides, from your posts, it sounds as if you know this man is the father. So why argue with it?

 

[huntergirl72482]

no genius that is where you are WRONG i was with someone else at the time i got pregnant and dont think he is the father that is why i agreed to joint custody only after paternity and if he was the father

 

[shell007]

no genius that is where you are WRONG i was with someone else at the time i got pregnant and dont think he is the father that is why i agreed to joint custody only after paternity and if he was the father

OMG

Will you please TRY to put periods in your sentences so that what you are saying AT LEAST makes grammatical sense if not common sense??

 

[CJane]

no genius that is where you are WRONG i was with someone else at the time i got pregnant and dont think he is the father that is why i agreed to joint custody only after paternity and if he was the father

What you are failing to understand is that once paternity is legally established, it doesn't matter if he's the biodad or not. He's willing to support the child. He was willing to stand up in court and swear the child is his. He's the child's FATHER for all intents and purposes, regardless of how many men you were sleeping with at the same time.

 

[weenor]

OP- nice of you to pick those trying to help you, who have given you good advice...but if you want an attorney's opinion...

Bottom line, you did not show up for your hearing and the judge had nothing to listen to besides the b/f. How long ago was this? You only have a certain number of days to file for reconsideration and a certain number of days to file for appeal....sounds like you've been sitting on your butt...of course you can't afford an attorney...no one can....guess the kid isn't important enough.


If your appeal time has expired you have a new burden of proof to get custody changed....so that will suck...good luck

 

[ceara19]

no genius that is where you are WRONG i was with someone else at the time i got pregnant and dont think he is the father that is why i agreed to joint custody only after paternity and if he was the father

So, not only were you married to one man, but you were screwing around with not one, but TWO OTHER guys?? Does the dad know there's at least a 50/50 chance he's NOT the father?