not2cleverRed
Obvious Observer
If Dad works days, and camp you might be able to convince him to let the boy go, at least for part of the summer... especially if you pay for it. His new squeeze might be available for "free" childcare while he's at work, but she is legally nothing to your son.Ohh and no it's not an over night camp it's only during the day
Given that your court orders are relatively new, and that the judge dictated this, not you... I'd follow the judge's directives, and let Dad go to the effort to file for the change. He has to come up with a change of circumstance.
Judge's come up with orders like this when one party annoys them. (VOE. I've got odd court orders - very few holidays mentioned, and half of those are "as the parties agree".)
Dad is unlikely to get a personality transplant. He will likely continue to antagonize judges.
There is a reason why judges rule the way the do. If Dad takes you back to court, and you go before the same judge, following the judges orders will not be held against you. Nor will it be held against you if you make (reasonable) deviation from a court order. As in, once in a while, if Dad wants extra time for a special event. Or Dad's in the area and it's convenient for both of you. An hour and a half drive makes it less likely that such convenient occasions will happen. Let reason be your guide, not fear.