gratefulcrimson
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Arkansas
My wife and I got married in May of 2014, we have a son that is 22 months old. Following a handful of verbal arguments and "distant" feelings, she left about 5 months ago with our son and moved three hours away to her mother's. She began dating another man, has only allowed me every other weekend "visitation"(when I have his two sisters from previous marriage) though I have asked for at least joint physical and received money from me as "support." Our arrangement has been unsavory and unfair, but I've held out to reconcile as opposed to immediately seeking counsel. Two months after leaving, she agreed to end her new relationship and resume married life with me. I went to visit them for Halloween weekend, only to have her tell me on Sunday that she changed her mind and didn't want to get back together. She resumed her relationship immediately after. This happened again two more months later. Driving down to my town with our son, she pleaded and insisted we save our family. I agreed and began making plans with my job to leave and move to where she is living. A week after this instance(Christmas), I went back up to spend the weekend, only to have her tell me on Sunday once again that she changed her mind and had been fueled by PMS. I've tried to fix it twice. She is impulsive and unpredictable. Now I want to file for divorce and am seriously wanting sole custody due to her rollercoaster behavior. She doesn't want to even give joint physical custody. What do I need to do/gather/prep for before my attorney meeting next week? She called me yesterday, stating her mother is going to kick her out and she has now decided we should get back together...irony? I wanted it to work and tried earnestly, only to be denied. Now I just want my son.
Thanks!
My wife and I got married in May of 2014, we have a son that is 22 months old. Following a handful of verbal arguments and "distant" feelings, she left about 5 months ago with our son and moved three hours away to her mother's. She began dating another man, has only allowed me every other weekend "visitation"(when I have his two sisters from previous marriage) though I have asked for at least joint physical and received money from me as "support." Our arrangement has been unsavory and unfair, but I've held out to reconcile as opposed to immediately seeking counsel. Two months after leaving, she agreed to end her new relationship and resume married life with me. I went to visit them for Halloween weekend, only to have her tell me on Sunday that she changed her mind and didn't want to get back together. She resumed her relationship immediately after. This happened again two more months later. Driving down to my town with our son, she pleaded and insisted we save our family. I agreed and began making plans with my job to leave and move to where she is living. A week after this instance(Christmas), I went back up to spend the weekend, only to have her tell me on Sunday once again that she changed her mind and had been fueled by PMS. I've tried to fix it twice. She is impulsive and unpredictable. Now I want to file for divorce and am seriously wanting sole custody due to her rollercoaster behavior. She doesn't want to even give joint physical custody. What do I need to do/gather/prep for before my attorney meeting next week? She called me yesterday, stating her mother is going to kick her out and she has now decided we should get back together...irony? I wanted it to work and tried earnestly, only to be denied. Now I just want my son.
Thanks!