Angelina49
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NJ
I have 2 DD sons living in a fantastic group home and I live in NJ. They come out here 2x a year to visit. Prior to their employment their support person thru DDD was told of this arrangement. They have just recently gotten jobs and I have just recently found out that their employers were not told of this arrangement prior to them being hired. I purchased their airline tickets 2 weeks ago for their Christmas trip here to NJ. I have just found out today that KCDDD and SKCAC will advocate for them and bring in APS if I do not change their tickets. This is because KCDDD said they might lose their jobs if they come here. I went and researched WA APS and I do not know how they can turn me into APS as I do not fall into any of the categories listed on the website. I also was told that APS will tell my sons that I am a bad Mom which would destroy them. My sons are 28 and 25 and we have a very loving and tight family relationship even though I live here. They love their jobs but they also love their 2nd home here. I am petrified that the state will hurt them thru me. Where can I go to find out more about KCDDD and also find out what they can and can't do to me/them. I hope this makes sense. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks, Angelina49
I have 2 DD sons living in a fantastic group home and I live in NJ. They come out here 2x a year to visit. Prior to their employment their support person thru DDD was told of this arrangement. They have just recently gotten jobs and I have just recently found out that their employers were not told of this arrangement prior to them being hired. I purchased their airline tickets 2 weeks ago for their Christmas trip here to NJ. I have just found out today that KCDDD and SKCAC will advocate for them and bring in APS if I do not change their tickets. This is because KCDDD said they might lose their jobs if they come here. I went and researched WA APS and I do not know how they can turn me into APS as I do not fall into any of the categories listed on the website. I also was told that APS will tell my sons that I am a bad Mom which would destroy them. My sons are 28 and 25 and we have a very loving and tight family relationship even though I live here. They love their jobs but they also love their 2nd home here. I am petrified that the state will hurt them thru me. Where can I go to find out more about KCDDD and also find out what they can and can't do to me/them. I hope this makes sense. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks, Angelina49