as said before, I did tell her when she was little. it was not an issue that needed to beat into the ground because he is absent. I mean really, do the parents here with absent NCP's talk about the other parent daily until the kid has it beat into thier head? Just curious. She did call my husband by his first name until my son was born when she was 5.5. I guess, thinking back, I figured she knew, her other set of grandparents were involved alot back then, just not the father. I am not afraid of him wanting his visitation, he has had that order for 8 years and I have been ok with him visiting from the get go, however, the only time he visited I took her to him. I am highly doubtful that he would leave to come here because if he had wanted to he could have and his parents have the funds to make it happen.
I wonder how come it wouldn't hurt his case that he never sought the visitation that he had or paid his child support. And yet once again, I wasn't going to remind her daily that the man that has raised her wasn't her biological donor.
I am going to go talk to a counselor, they are professionals. I mean Queen of England so far is the only one on here that is at least decent in her talking to another person. I know I need to touch base with her again. I guess we have just been having such a good life that I didn't see any reason to confuse her or cause her to feel that there was someone out there didn't give a ****.
