denial of medical care?... thoughts please
wisconsin, first off let me say i had told my wife SHE NEEDS to handle this and that i would support what ever she decides to do as i can not do anything about it.
my wife wanted me to ask if her ex denied medical care for one of their children for two weeks after we had informed him of a problem with the child and instructed that he and her were to follow up per order of the attending ER doc, if it would be considered denial of medical care. Saturday after he had not brought the boy to the doc after 3 different appointments that he asked her to set up, she finally took him. they have done blood work, a neurological exam and aslo had a CT scan ordered right away(that day). we now have to have him have a EKG done ASAP. as of right now they are telling us he is having seizures, and over the past 2 weeks have gotten worse.we originally took him in to get looked at on a Saturday night.( again two weeks ago). we had informed the childs ex last night when he came to pick the kids up and he told us that he has not seen him do anything so it must be something we do at our house. but yet their daughter told both of them that she saw him doing it at summer school last week. can we go for TCO and or modification of custody because of this and would this be a good time to hit him with the contempt issue for non payment of bills order through the court? if he is having the seizures like they are stating that would mean he is having hundreds per day since in a 15minute period we had counted 25 times.
any other thoughts on this matter?( oh , the father also told the boy that if he goes on medicine that he would not be able to play, run around or ride his bike like a child should be able to do so it would be the best for him to say he is doing it for attention)
almost forgot to mention that we are also in the predicument that the father does not work due to back injury and is supposed to go in for surgery but have no ides when this is. he also stated that he is broke and has no money to take the child to the doctor. we have the child insured and he also has state aid for medical coverage. but just got back from being up north with his GF.
thanks in advance
wisconsin, first off let me say i had told my wife SHE NEEDS to handle this and that i would support what ever she decides to do as i can not do anything about it.
my wife wanted me to ask if her ex denied medical care for one of their children for two weeks after we had informed him of a problem with the child and instructed that he and her were to follow up per order of the attending ER doc, if it would be considered denial of medical care. Saturday after he had not brought the boy to the doc after 3 different appointments that he asked her to set up, she finally took him. they have done blood work, a neurological exam and aslo had a CT scan ordered right away(that day). we now have to have him have a EKG done ASAP. as of right now they are telling us he is having seizures, and over the past 2 weeks have gotten worse.we originally took him in to get looked at on a Saturday night.( again two weeks ago). we had informed the childs ex last night when he came to pick the kids up and he told us that he has not seen him do anything so it must be something we do at our house. but yet their daughter told both of them that she saw him doing it at summer school last week. can we go for TCO and or modification of custody because of this and would this be a good time to hit him with the contempt issue for non payment of bills order through the court? if he is having the seizures like they are stating that would mean he is having hundreds per day since in a 15minute period we had counted 25 times.
any other thoughts on this matter?( oh , the father also told the boy that if he goes on medicine that he would not be able to play, run around or ride his bike like a child should be able to do so it would be the best for him to say he is doing it for attention)
almost forgot to mention that we are also in the predicument that the father does not work due to back injury and is supposed to go in for surgery but have no ides when this is. he also stated that he is broke and has no money to take the child to the doctor. we have the child insured and he also has state aid for medical coverage. but just got back from being up north with his GF.
thanks in advance
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