LdiJ
Senior Member
My philosophy is a little different in that I don't believe in leaving an inheritance to relatives (or anyone) that I have not seen, spoken to or have not been in contact with "for years" but I absolutely have no problem leaving an inheritance to someone that I am/have "heard from" every now and then. So I feel that the way to go is to leave most of my inheritance to charities thus I would leave this world with more than I took from it.
That is a wonderful attitude and I applaud it. However, when you are talking about joint assets, you cannot force that attitude on your spouse. That is simply reality.