He works for the city as a police officer, that is why he doesn't pay SS. He didn't start working there until age 40, so I guess there would be some SS from his jobs prior.
I'll admit, I did nothing to protect myself and I regret that. That's why I have to be smart now. He has also agreed to get a quit claim deed and turn the house over to me. My goal is to keep the house, at least for now. My mom has offered to help me and I'm trying to look for other job opportunities to make more money.
As for the $70K, that's the total at this time, not per year. That's what he has earned in the 12 yrs he's worked in the dept.
Thanks for the responses!