Otterchick
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?Ohio
Last year when my husband and I were separated he was seeing someone else and she became pregnant with twins. We have since reconciled and even renewed our vows. This woman is all about the money, I can honestly believe that she got pregnant as a source of income. Anyway, I have a couple of questions...
1) It was figured that we would need to pay $600 a month in support. It doesn't seem to me that the courts take into account that we have 3 other children to raise...are there any options?
2) She is currently working a full time minimum wage job and is currently living with her soon to be ex-husband (don't ask) and is receiving more money in food stamps than she could ever use in a month. Can this be taken into account when figuring child support?
3) If we utilize shared parenting, is there a chance the court will modify support to reflect the fact that we have the kids half the time or will this enable her to hamper the shared parenting so she can get more money?
Please understand, I am not trying to get us out of paying child support for these children. I love them dearly and we are considering going for full custody. The problem I have is that I know for a fact that this woman got pregnant on purpose (she all but admitted it), she has demonstrated that she doesn't much care if the kids are around or not (we have often had the kids for 4 or more days and had to force her to take them back because of our work schedules) and is truly only interested in the money (she offered to sell us the chance to change their last name because she "didn't care what their name was".) Even her 3 year old tells her to "F*** off" and I swear her 15 month old called me a bitch. To sum it up, we know that the money paid to her will mostly go towards her clothing and clubbing habits while we are raising the children anyway, and the 3 children living with us have to go without. It doesn't seem right.
Sorry so long, thanks for any help.
Last year when my husband and I were separated he was seeing someone else and she became pregnant with twins. We have since reconciled and even renewed our vows. This woman is all about the money, I can honestly believe that she got pregnant as a source of income. Anyway, I have a couple of questions...
1) It was figured that we would need to pay $600 a month in support. It doesn't seem to me that the courts take into account that we have 3 other children to raise...are there any options?
2) She is currently working a full time minimum wage job and is currently living with her soon to be ex-husband (don't ask) and is receiving more money in food stamps than she could ever use in a month. Can this be taken into account when figuring child support?
3) If we utilize shared parenting, is there a chance the court will modify support to reflect the fact that we have the kids half the time or will this enable her to hamper the shared parenting so she can get more money?
Please understand, I am not trying to get us out of paying child support for these children. I love them dearly and we are considering going for full custody. The problem I have is that I know for a fact that this woman got pregnant on purpose (she all but admitted it), she has demonstrated that she doesn't much care if the kids are around or not (we have often had the kids for 4 or more days and had to force her to take them back because of our work schedules) and is truly only interested in the money (she offered to sell us the chance to change their last name because she "didn't care what their name was".) Even her 3 year old tells her to "F*** off" and I swear her 15 month old called me a bitch. To sum it up, we know that the money paid to her will mostly go towards her clothing and clubbing habits while we are raising the children anyway, and the 3 children living with us have to go without. It doesn't seem right.
Sorry so long, thanks for any help.