Please Help Do i drop charges or not
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york
Have orp against husband. Hit my car, smashed home and cell phone. Charged with felony for car $1,000 worth of damange and 2 mistermineor for phone. Hes been 2 court twice already. Today at court they kept the order still in effect. I left a message with the DA last week saying, court was coming up and I wanted the order still in effect. Today he was upset because he wanted it reduced and wasnt. Do i have a say in the matter if i want to drop it. I was told no because the charges are with the state now. I would like to modify the order for the childrens sake. I just want to attend same functions for the children and meet once a week for diner with kids. He is a good dad. Just with me he is controlling and verbally abusive. He is attended Anger Management. Financially i cant afford it. He says, if i drop the charges he wouldn't keep on going to court. Is that so? He wants to lift the charges but Da said, No. Was it because i left her a message saying that? Would she reduced the order if i didnt say that? Can i make some decisions on what i want? Dont want husband to live home now but want some involvement. And already in dept so would like to end court hearings. Please help me. Thanks for your time.
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york
Have orp against husband. Hit my car, smashed home and cell phone. Charged with felony for car $1,000 worth of damange and 2 mistermineor for phone. Hes been 2 court twice already. Today at court they kept the order still in effect. I left a message with the DA last week saying, court was coming up and I wanted the order still in effect. Today he was upset because he wanted it reduced and wasnt. Do i have a say in the matter if i want to drop it. I was told no because the charges are with the state now. I would like to modify the order for the childrens sake. I just want to attend same functions for the children and meet once a week for diner with kids. He is a good dad. Just with me he is controlling and verbally abusive. He is attended Anger Management. Financially i cant afford it. He says, if i drop the charges he wouldn't keep on going to court. Is that so? He wants to lift the charges but Da said, No. Was it because i left her a message saying that? Would she reduced the order if i didnt say that? Can i make some decisions on what i want? Dont want husband to live home now but want some involvement. And already in dept so would like to end court hearings. Please help me. Thanks for your time.
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