n CA mediation is ordered by the court when parents cannot agree on a parenting plan. It is through the courts. They will review any documentation &/or declarations you have filed on the case. The will contact any therapists, doctors etc. as long as you give them the contact information.
I agree with rmet, in a case like this- it's best to ask for a 730 evaluation. (Mine was a godsend) People who 'pretend' or infect their children with negativity about the other parent will be revealed in a psychological evaluation. In the meantime, follow through with therapy if you can- and when you see your children explain to them in age appropriate terms what is going on. ie; that you are seeing a Dr. or therapist to help you and Mommy decide what is the best way to 'share' time with them. Reinforce that you love them no matter what and you do not expect them to pick sides. Spend quality time with them and eventually they will decipher who is who.
