there is no legal court papers at all none he sees the child twice a month sometimes and thats when i make it happen i have to force him to be around him only because my son will be 4 in april he doesnt understand and it is causing problems he has been reffered to a psyscologist for these problems thats why it WILL be better to move to AZ so there isnt all this one minute hes around and the next hes not my son and be settle and go to school and live his life .
If there are no orders giving you permission to move, then the above probably applies. The only caveat is that if paternity has not been established, you probably don't have to notify Dad, but as soon as you move, he can petition the court for paternity and to have the child returned to FL - so you'd be no better off.
Your best bet is with Dad's permission.
BTW, your rationalization for the move doesn't ring true. Dad only sees the kid when you force him - but he psychologist says that its better if the kid doesn't see Dad. Ignoring for the moment the question of whether the psychologist really said that, that is contradictory.
First, if it's bad for the kid to see Dad, why are you forcing him to see Dad when there's no court order and Dad doesn't even ask for it? Either your story is false or you are intentionally harming the child.
Second, even if the psychologist really did say that, you can solve the problem by simply not forcing the kid to see Dad. Problem solved, no need to drag the kid halfway across the country.
You need a better reason than that. And wanting to shack up with a new bed-buddy (assuming that's the reason) isn't sufficient if Dad challenges the move.