What is the name of your state? KY My ex is going to try and get custody of my 16 yr old daughter. LONG STORY, ITS A "GRASS IS GREENER" ISSUE. However, I am scared that if he wins, I may have to move because he will no longer pay her support. But, he is not going for custody of my 13 yr old son.He works at a very well paying aluminum co., and has paid the same for 8 years. I was just wondering if he may owe more than what he is paying now for each child? Thanks.