What is the name of your state?California
My mother and father have an irrevocable trust that goes into effect upon both their passing..My brother and I are named trustees and my sister as the backup if one of us can't or won't. My father passed away in 2007 and my mother is 97 in good health. Schwab told her today to get a power of attorney and name my brother in the event she can no longer take care of finances. How does that work with an irrevocable trust? After reading many nightmare stories of sibling fallout over the execution of estates and wills, my parents never wanted the responsibility to land on one set of shoulders that is why they asked us as they were preparing the trust how do we want it set as far as trustee. My brother, sister and I all agreed to the set up mentioned above. My mother is upset now thinking she has to make a change to something she and my father already decided on. How does the "one agent" requirements of Shwab or any other finance company supersede the written last wishes of someone who "chose" them to do business with?
My mother and father have an irrevocable trust that goes into effect upon both their passing..My brother and I are named trustees and my sister as the backup if one of us can't or won't. My father passed away in 2007 and my mother is 97 in good health. Schwab told her today to get a power of attorney and name my brother in the event she can no longer take care of finances. How does that work with an irrevocable trust? After reading many nightmare stories of sibling fallout over the execution of estates and wills, my parents never wanted the responsibility to land on one set of shoulders that is why they asked us as they were preparing the trust how do we want it set as far as trustee. My brother, sister and I all agreed to the set up mentioned above. My mother is upset now thinking she has to make a change to something she and my father already decided on. How does the "one agent" requirements of Shwab or any other finance company supersede the written last wishes of someone who "chose" them to do business with?