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What is the name of your state? IL

am an assistant manager for a large corp. In the spring my manager was terminated because I reported him for showing me porno pictures of himslef with woman. Come to find out, this was not the first time he was in trouble for sexual misbehavior at my company.

Now a few weeks ago the VP of sales met my girlfriend who was staying with me from CA. He wanted to date her and told him, "Please, keep it out of my personal life." One day he left a little early. I had a feeling he might be at my condo to pick my friend up, so I phoned my friend and told her I was on the way home. She told me my boss was there and he said," I really like your place." I came home and saw his shoes in my foyer. It was the very first time he saw her and he was in my bed with her. I left feeling very uncomfortable. The next day I went into work and confronted him and told him I was very upset that he had sex in my bed. He said he was sorry. That day he asked the employess I manage to work late. This meant I had to stay also. This was a first. I told him under no circumstance would I work late. I phoned my friend and she said he had planned to come over again while I was at work.

To make a long story short I reported him also. He was terminated. He also had a very long history of sexually related HR complaints including a complaint with the EEOC.

Now work is horrible. My pay is cut by 20K, people that were loyal to my boss hate me as he told them what happened. I have a hard time sleeping and paying my bills.



how is your boss sleeping with your friend a workman's comp problem? You say she was girlfriend,friend.. If she answered your phone told you he was there, that means she did'nt care about your feelings... Sorry to say it that way but it's gonna be hard to get this under workman's comp

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