Eviction notice

[Diana coleman]

What is the name of your state?california

 

[Diana coleman]

Do I need to provide eviction notice to adult daughter to move from my house that I am renting? She was only supposed to stay for 2 weeks she brought 2 kids and a pit bull. Then boyfriend got out of jail and started staying here. sleeping out in the car in front of my house who which is a herion addict now back in jail. They said they would help with rent and utilities however nothing has been paid. it has been almost 2 years. I have asked her to move out multiple times she says when she gets Money she will move but it gets spent at the casino. She leaves kids at my house and runs the streets all hours of the day and night. I haven’t been able to sit in my living room to watch tv on my new sectional couch because the kids use it to sleep because she won’t clean the room of her belongings and garbage it looks like a hoarders room she lets her kids throw garbage all over the living room dirty dishes everywhere they don’t help clean house or do dishes. Has multiple tires in my front yard bags of clothes in my backyard she has broken bathroom door kicked holes the has punched holes in kitChen cabinets she yells screams calls me names and everytime I tell her to get out she laughs in my face and tells me to get a 60 day notice. She doesn’t have a job she is not on lease. I cannot continue to feel guilty because of my grandkid especially when they treat me with the same disrespect. she disconnected my home security camera and won’t return it because I took her off of the sharing device When is enough going to be enough? Does it make me a bad parent kicking them out or letting them stay? I need help I can’t do this anymore.

 

[Just Blue]

Do I need to provide eviction notice to adult daughter to move from my house that I am renting? She was only supposed to stay for 2 weeks she brought 2 kids and a pit bull. Then boyfriend got out of jail and started staying here. sleeping out in the car in front of my house who which is a herion addict now back in jail. They said they would help with rent and utilities however nothing has been paid. it has been almost 2 years. I have asked her to move out multiple times she says when she gets Money she will move but it gets spent at the casino. She leaves kids at my house and runs the streets all hours of the day and night. I haven’t been able to sit in my living room to watch tv on my new sectional couch because the kids use it to sleep because she won’t clean the room of her belongings and garbage it looks like a hoarders room she lets her kids throw garbage all over the living room dirty dishes everywhere they don’t help clean house or do dishes. Has multiple tires in my front yard bags of clothes in my backyard she has broken bathroom door kicked holes the has punched holes in kitChen cabinets she yells screams calls me names and everytime I tell her to get out she laughs in my face and tells me to get a 60 day notice. She doesn’t have a job she is not on lease. I cannot continue to feel guilty because of my grandkid especially when they treat me with the same disrespect. she disconnected my home security camera and won’t return it because I took her off of the sharing device When is enough going to be enough? Does it make me a bad parent kicking them out or letting them stay? I need help I can’t do this anymore.

Is she listed on the lease? Is the Landlord aware that she is living there?

 

[Diana coleman]

No she is not on the lease and the owner doesn’t know she is here. She was only supposed to stay for 2 weeks and we have made verbal arrangements such as you can stay till Christmas but you have to leave after that she says she will be out before then but it never happens. I’m guess I’m just going to get a 60 day notice so it’s done legally and it will be out of my hands I just don’t know if I can deal with this much longer. I thought about telling her that I will press vandalism charges on her if she doesn’t leave but this is my daughter and I don’t want her in trouble because I will have to follow through with what I said. I feel she will call my bluff. I just recently lost my only son to motorcycle accident and I feel I’m she is playing on my guilt of holding on to the only child I have left but I just can’t do this anymore

 

[adjusterjack]

You might not need 60 days notice.

Her violence and abuse should be good for a restraining order and the police will serve it and put her out.

On the other hand, if you don't have the backbone, you're...

 

[LdiJ]

You might not need 60 days notice.

Her violence and abuse should be good for a restraining order and the police will serve it and put her out.

On the other hand, if you don't have the backbone, you're...

I echo this advise!

 

[Gail in Georgia]

If you cannot bring yourself to work toward a restraining order against your daughter hire an attorney familiar with the steps to evict someone in your state and be done with her.

Then contact Child Protective Services and discuss how poorly she cares for her children (it would appear that you, not she, is raising and providing for them). Are you willing to take over as their guardian should it come to that?

You do not need to provide her a 60 day notice. She has never paid rent; she is not a "tenant" even in tenant friendly California. She will pay no attention to any amount of notice you have provided her. It is time to get a backbone in regards to your own child and how she is treating you.

 

[Zigner]

Then contact Child Protective Services and discuss how poorly she cares for her children (it would appear that you, not she, is raising and providing for them). Are you willing to take over as their guardian should it come to that?

There is no reason for CPS to get involved because the kids are being cared for, albeit, by grandma. They have food, clothing and safe housing with (apparently) adequate supervision.

 

[FarmerJ]

Do report the property damage , It appears to me that your relationship with her is already trashed and when you file the police report if your feeling afraid she will harm you tell the police. ( your going to need the police report when you finally tell your landlord about the damage ) go ahead with the restraining order and contact social services only if she endangers the kids. Once she is out let her deal with the consequences of her poor choices , If social services becomes involved because of any thing she does outside of your home rather than just moving the kids in I suggest you tell them of the past problems with the children and help you come up with rules and consequences if they live with you and that includes them knowing that they could indeed end up in foster care by someone else other than you. or if the kids dad (s) are alive make contact and tell them the children need them.