First off I didn't interfere, I clearly said the original order said she was to meet halfway and she didn't and still doesn't. The judge decided that not me. I don't get involved and support him because unlike some women out there I actually do care about his rights as a dad.
I do have a serious suggestion here. Forget Mom and Dad for a moment. Think about how his new plan would actually affect the children.
[ Some of you are really ignorant and think that just because I posted it means I must be the one causing the drama.
Knowing the legalities and realities of the court isn't ignorant. But we've all seen this before (and I for one have been guilty of it) - as soon as there's a new relationship, the new partner thinks that custody should be changed and, by the way, if you get more custody that'll mean you pay less child support. Whether or not that's the motive isn't really the point.
I came on here looking for advice to give him, if he could post himself he would but obviously he can't because of his job. Just because I ask for suggestions doesn't mean I'm the one causing drama. I don't speak to her and I don't deal with her. I listen to him and obviously he's trying to be a dad and his ex wants to just be worried about US as a couple and not the child.
She's worried because in her opinion, you're the newbie to the whole mess and Dad never bothered about custody before you appeared on the scene.
See where I'm going with this?
