ohio. I am the non custodial parent. I have a standard visitation agreement. My question is the past few months on my weekends to have my daughter(shes 5) she always calls me the day before i pick her up and tells me my daughter HAS to goto some random "cousin"or "friends" bday party every single weekend i have her, and that i have to bring her to my exes house,drop her off,and come back hours later and pick her up(she lives a half hour away so 2 hours plus the several hours for party is being taken away from me). she says its her game and i have to play by her rules, and if i dont take her to her house she will refuse to let me have her all weekend at all. 1. Am i really required to take her to bday parties every time she tells me to. 2.can she legally not let me have her if i say no? Last time i had to say no cause my car broke down so she told me she was intentionally changing weekends with me this weekend only cause it will make me have to take her to yet another kids party to get back at me for saying i couldnt, and "theres not a damn thing i can do about it" and laughed and hung up on me. I cannot afford a lawer. What can i do if she refuses to let me have her?