Illionois. My ex-wife wants to send our 10 year old son to a psychologist for evaluation for ADHD. I do not agree with this and I don't approve. However, she has full custody and can therefore do this. She has submitted forms to me to fill out. I do not want any part of this. Her claim is that she is doing this to try to find ways to improve his expediency when doing his homework. She sends him, against my wishes, to a private school. He has 2 to 5 times as much homework as my other 3 children who go to public schools. It takes him 2 to 3 hours to do it at her home. It takes him 45 minutes to do it at my home. He has nothing to look forward to at her home. Here, he has motivation to complete his homework-play! There, he has no kids in his neighborhood to play with and his younger brother there is a little too young to play with. I want to reject any participation in this madness but I do not want to send a messege to a court that I am an uncooperative parent. I plan on seeking custody soon and I don't want to jeopardize my chances of gaining custody. Any advice on what the correct path would be?