DevotedMomAZ
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Arizona - My ex and I have joint custody (50/50 visitation). My ex has been working out of state, so I've had my children full time for the last 3 months. His wife e-mailed me in November, stating that she WOULD NOT take the kids in his absense). I agree with this,but she has now changed her mind. My son has has shown tremendous improvement both emotionally and academically over the past 3 months, therefore I filed a stipulation request with the courts several weeks ago stating "Mother is to have first right of refusal if Father is out of town."
My ex is now demanding that we return to the 50/50 schedule immediately (as a result of the request that I filed with the courts). My ex's main concern is that he will have to pay more child support (not if it is in the best interest of the children). Do I have to agree to this? Can I refuse to revert back to the 50/50 schedule unitil the court rules? (The kids have been on this schedule for three months and their father is currently working out of state). The decree does not state the rules for visitation if one parent is out of state. Does this help my case?
My son gets very emotionally distraut when he has to go there when his father is out of town, so much so he gets sick to his stomach, becomes introverted, his school work suffers, etc.) He has four siblings (3 from thier step-mom and one from me (my daughter). My son is treated very differently at his fathers home (he is not allowed to watch t.v. at all while the other 4 children are allowed to. He feels excluded and like he is being punished). It goes deeper than that, but that one example. My daughter wants to go to her dads on the scheduled visitation even if he is not there (to see her sisters and brother), I am fine with that, because that is what she wants to do.
I filed for the stipulation several weeks ago but have not received a ruling yet. Should I file an emergency custody form, or do I even need to? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. My son has been happier than he has ever been over the past three months and reverting the the 50/50 schedule (without his father at the home), will be disruptive and will clearly effect him emotionally.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My ex is now demanding that we return to the 50/50 schedule immediately (as a result of the request that I filed with the courts). My ex's main concern is that he will have to pay more child support (not if it is in the best interest of the children). Do I have to agree to this? Can I refuse to revert back to the 50/50 schedule unitil the court rules? (The kids have been on this schedule for three months and their father is currently working out of state). The decree does not state the rules for visitation if one parent is out of state. Does this help my case?
My son gets very emotionally distraut when he has to go there when his father is out of town, so much so he gets sick to his stomach, becomes introverted, his school work suffers, etc.) He has four siblings (3 from thier step-mom and one from me (my daughter). My son is treated very differently at his fathers home (he is not allowed to watch t.v. at all while the other 4 children are allowed to. He feels excluded and like he is being punished). It goes deeper than that, but that one example. My daughter wants to go to her dads on the scheduled visitation even if he is not there (to see her sisters and brother), I am fine with that, because that is what she wants to do.
I filed for the stipulation several weeks ago but have not received a ruling yet. Should I file an emergency custody form, or do I even need to? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. My son has been happier than he has ever been over the past three months and reverting the the 50/50 schedule (without his father at the home), will be disruptive and will clearly effect him emotionally.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
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