To t74:
Yes I do agree that this has opened a can of worms, but regardless of this situation, it actually is something that needed to happen. In that legally via the courts neither of us has it spelled out as to what schedule we should be following and that needs to be addressed.
I was and still would have fine with her being there for an extended amount of time to ensure that she was not exposed to anything that she shouldn't have had to. The issue was and is is that my ex-husband has taken it upon himself to decide that he is where she will reside permanently, informed me that I would not see her again until the courts decided, and changing her school even while everything is distance learning. This is not the first time that he has done this and the last time was simply because he wanted to. I felt helpless to do anything and therefore, I would prefer a court to decide where my daughter resides. While I made the decision to travel, my ex has admitted to me in written form what happens in his house behinds closed doors. To which I do not feel that her daily environment would be healthy. Yes I made the decision to travel in a time when regardless how I saw it, should have choose differently.However, I feel that this instance should not erase all of the other years in which I had her in my care in a stable household free from verbal, mental, and at times possible physical abuse.
Yes I do agree that this has opened a can of worms, but regardless of this situation, it actually is something that needed to happen. In that legally via the courts neither of us has it spelled out as to what schedule we should be following and that needs to be addressed.
I was and still would have fine with her being there for an extended amount of time to ensure that she was not exposed to anything that she shouldn't have had to. The issue was and is is that my ex-husband has taken it upon himself to decide that he is where she will reside permanently, informed me that I would not see her again until the courts decided, and changing her school even while everything is distance learning. This is not the first time that he has done this and the last time was simply because he wanted to. I felt helpless to do anything and therefore, I would prefer a court to decide where my daughter resides. While I made the decision to travel, my ex has admitted to me in written form what happens in his house behinds closed doors. To which I do not feel that her daily environment would be healthy. Yes I made the decision to travel in a time when regardless how I saw it, should have choose differently.However, I feel that this instance should not erase all of the other years in which I had her in my care in a stable household free from verbal, mental, and at times possible physical abuse.
