Ex's GF's house unstable environment.

[titansfan]

gf is a wierdo

good for your ex for sticking up for his son-sounds like this woman needs serious help. he doesnt need to be around this crazy woamn, when she was throwing things, he could have gotten hurt. as long as the father gets his visitation, everything should be ok, doesnt really matter where as long as dad gets to see his son. i wouldnt let my child go over there, either

 

[Ljnsy]

Thanks for your post

good for your ex for sticking up for his son-sounds like this woman needs serious help. he doesnt need to be around this crazy woamn, when she was throwing things, he could have gotten hurt. as long as the father gets his visitation, everything should be ok, doesnt really matter where as long as dad gets to see his son. i wouldnt let my child go over there, either

Thank you. Yes it is good that my ex sticks up for my son and I appreciate that he does that. He is a good person, for the most part. But one of the problems is, he shouldn't really start yelling and screaming at the luntic in front of my son to begin with. I can see it if she started beating on my son but simply yelling at him is no cause to start screaming and swearing at her in front of the children. He should have waited until they were not present. I told him that.

Visitation is not really an issue. He can call me on the spur of the moment any time he wants and request to see my son. If we have no plans I say "sure". OR my son might ask me if he can go over there (Nana & Papa's)on a day during my weekend and again, if we have no plans, I allow him to go.

 

[amiegaines654]

i wouldnt let my child go over there, either

And you could go to jail for that.
Assuming that everything the poster says is true, then IMO, it isn't a good place for a child to be, HOWEVER, all of her allegations have to be proven. If the poster can't prove what she says, it doesn't matter. She still has to follow the court order, or risk her child or jail time. PERIOD

 

[Ljnsy]

And you could go to jail for that.
Assuming that everything the poster says is true, then IMO, it isn't a good place for a child to be, HOWEVER, all of her allegations have to be proven. If the poster can't prove what she says, it doesn't matter. She still has to follow the court order, or risk her child or jail time. PERIOD

I CAN prove it and if I have to go to court to stop him from taking my child over there, I will.
I was simply asking to begin with if it was possible to get a restraining / no contact order on this woman based on the incidents that I described. It is domestic violence and I KNOW that I would need proof.

 

[amiegaines654]

I CAN prove it and if I have to go to court to stop him from taking my child over there, I will.
I was simply asking to begin with if it was possible to get a restraining / no contact order on this woman based on the incidents that I described. It is domestic violence and I KNOW that I would need proof.

What is your proof? The emails? That probably won't be enough, but GOOD LUCK!!!!

 

[Ljnsy]

I know this is an old post but.....

I wanted to update this in the original post.

Went to court about a seperate issue but during that hearing the judge ruled that my ex is to take his visitations with our son at his parents house and NOT at the GF's house.
I'm very happy about this because I was so worried that he would start taking him there again and I didn't want our son to see the fights they get into again.

 

[bononos]

I wanted to update this in the original post.

Went to court about a seperate issue but during that hearing the judge ruled that my ex is to take his visitations with our son at his parents house and NOT at the GF's house.
I'm very happy about this because I was so worried that he would start taking him there again and I didn't want our son to see the fights they get into again.

Very Happy For You!

 

[Ljnsy]

LOL, Thanks.

Very Happy For You!

What's odd is that I didn't even ask for it. The judge simply decided that based on what was said at the hearing about the DV in the home.

My ex is the one who took ME to court wanting Sole decision making in my son's psychological treatment. Didn't get that either.

 

[bononos]

What's odd is that I didn't even ask for it. The judge simply decided that based on what was said at the hearing about the DV in the home.

My ex is the one who took ME to court wanting Sole decision making in my son's psychological treatment. Didn't get that either.

This was an old thread.
Did him and psycho get back together?

 

[Ljnsy]

This was an old thread.
Did him and psycho get back together?

They sure did. She was there in the court room sitting behind my ex shooting flames of fire out of her eyes at my back and the ex was sitting there red faced, head down, and not looking at me or anyone else. LOL

His parents even hate this one.

My son has been calling her a psycho since the last incident. He was on the phone with one of his friends and the friend must have asked him something about his father and my son said "Well, first he was with my brother's mom and then he married my mom and they got divorced and now he's with a psycho." It was the matter of fact way he said it that I thought was hilarious. I just pretended I didn't hear what he said though.

 

[bononos]

They sure did. She was there in the court room sitting behind my ex shooting flames of fire out of her eyes at my back and the ex was sitting there red faced, head down, and not looking at me or anyone else. LOL

His parents even hate this one.

My son has been calling her a psycho since the last incident. He was on the phone with one of his friends and the friend must have asked him something about his father and my son said "Well, first he was with my brother's mom and then he married my mom and they got divorced and now he's with a psycho." It was the matter of fact way he said it that I thought was hilarious. I just pretended I didn't hear what he said though.

Was your ex always a pussy? Or just with her?
Well, at least it worked out for kiddo.

 

[Ljnsy]

Was your ex always a pussy? Or just with her?
Well, at least it worked out for kiddo.

He was always a pussy.
That's one of the many many reasons I divorced him.