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I wasn't sure if I should continue in my old thread of "Recording Calls", but thought I might post under a new thread as this is a whole new topic.
My worst nightmare has come to life. For years my ex has told me he would turn the kids against me and he has. He and they are saying I have abused them physically. I have not. The children have been in therapy for about 4 years becasue theis divorce and custody situation has been horrible.
This man chases me around schools, daycares, airports creating scenes usually the police have to be involved.
He sends me hate email all the time....28 pages long....going on and on how he will win, and goes on and on that Iam abusing the kids.....I mean they are the ramblings of a mad man.
He refuses to pay child support, or any of the portion of his medical bills.
Our court order states that I am allowed to have telephonic access to the children daily, and that the other parent has the obligation to have the children return my call.
On August 1 everything was fine....the kids called and wished their sibling happy birthday we chatted and everything was just fine. They seemed happy to talk with me, and said they loved and missed me.
Then 2 days later a complete 180. When I call they scream I dont want to call you, and I am not coming home.
He says he doesnt care what the court order says he cant make them call me.
He claimed I was abusing them last summer and DCF investigated and all claims were unfounded. As I said I have had the kids in therapy 4 years, and this has never come out. He called the school couslor who then spoke with the children. They said the were fine, and not afraid of me. I have always taken my kids to the DR when they are sick and yearly for physicals and no abuse has been noted. No teachers, or daycare providers ever suspected I was abusing the kids.
I am hearbroken they are acting like this towards me, but I am very concerned. how do you defend yourself when the kids and their are saying you abused them? I mena how do you prove you didnt and that he is convincing the children are not being truthful? I am innocent....I would never hurt them....I have tried so hard to co parent with their Father but he is out of controll.
Has anyone had their kids do this to them?
I wasn't sure if I should continue in my old thread of "Recording Calls", but thought I might post under a new thread as this is a whole new topic.
My worst nightmare has come to life. For years my ex has told me he would turn the kids against me and he has. He and they are saying I have abused them physically. I have not. The children have been in therapy for about 4 years becasue theis divorce and custody situation has been horrible.
This man chases me around schools, daycares, airports creating scenes usually the police have to be involved.
He sends me hate email all the time....28 pages long....going on and on how he will win, and goes on and on that Iam abusing the kids.....I mean they are the ramblings of a mad man.
He refuses to pay child support, or any of the portion of his medical bills.
Our court order states that I am allowed to have telephonic access to the children daily, and that the other parent has the obligation to have the children return my call.
On August 1 everything was fine....the kids called and wished their sibling happy birthday we chatted and everything was just fine. They seemed happy to talk with me, and said they loved and missed me.
Then 2 days later a complete 180. When I call they scream I dont want to call you, and I am not coming home.
He says he doesnt care what the court order says he cant make them call me.
He claimed I was abusing them last summer and DCF investigated and all claims were unfounded. As I said I have had the kids in therapy 4 years, and this has never come out. He called the school couslor who then spoke with the children. They said the were fine, and not afraid of me. I have always taken my kids to the DR when they are sick and yearly for physicals and no abuse has been noted. No teachers, or daycare providers ever suspected I was abusing the kids.
I am hearbroken they are acting like this towards me, but I am very concerned. how do you defend yourself when the kids and their are saying you abused them? I mena how do you prove you didnt and that he is convincing the children are not being truthful? I am innocent....I would never hurt them....I have tried so hard to co parent with their Father but he is out of controll.
Has anyone had their kids do this to them?