My son was not stalking her. He did move on with his life. Her current boyfriend hit her and she ran to my son and told him she was wrong for leaving him and wants him back. She spent the whole day at my house in his bedroom watching movies. The next day no one knew where she was and he found out she was at that guys house. He was worried and went to check on her.
He wasn't worried, he was mad, jealous and acting on his emotions. Going over to her new boyfriend's home was a bad idea. Why did the new boyfriend have to pull a gun on him to get him to leave, was he refusing up to that point or threatening the new guy?
If he was truly worried about this little charmer's well being, he should have contacted the police and asked them to check on her welfare.
The guy got mad and pulled a gun and made him leave..The next day he took her to the police and had her file charges on my son for stalking. There was no restraining order. All it is a jealous guy making his gf file charges.
I have a hard time believing that the DA would file stalking charges on your son for going to "check up on her" one time. Has he been calling, texting and/or E-mailing this girl constantly?
If he was at the new boyfriends house making a scene the new boyfriend could have made his own report or asked the courts for a restraining order to keep your son at bay. So I'm not so sure he had to drag the little princess down to the police station to have her file charges.
Anyway, if your son hasn't been contacting this girl in any way aside from the one visit to the new boyfriends house, I don't see how the DA can expect to win a conviction for stalking charges.
Stalking requires more than one check up on the ex girlfriend.
Lets hope your son now realizes this little hussy is bad news and doesn't allow her in his room, home or life ever again.